Child Support as a Weapon..Sean Delevan

With the whole Country falling apart, it is downright absurd that the focus is to place people in jail who cannot afford to pay their child support. The argument that "they can apply for a downward modification" is fraudulent at best.This point needs to be fully clarified and understood for what it truly is; bullshit at best.

The 1-3 year downward modification process does nothing to address the immediate issues that these child support orders are causing people. The custodial parent is under the impression that they have won because they have received a high award ruling. They  have little comprehension that everyone is going to suffer as a result, especially the children.

This whole system is causing society and families to break down. It is also breeding hate and anger amongst parents and children. This is not who we are.

The family court process removes love, compassion, and empathy from the family unit at lightening speed and replaces it with hatred and anger.

This process causes the parents quickly forget about all the love that they shared prior to entering the divorce process. Lost is all the loving memories and happiness that lead up to the birth and joys of becoming a mom and dad.

So how is the parent or child benefiting when 1 parent is put in jail and has been utterly destroyed both emotionally and financially.

How great of a reward will found in heaven when that parent looks back and sees just how bad they have crushed the joys of parenthood, life, and hope from the other parent through the use of a child as a weapon?

Will there still be joy?

Will there still be a way to justify the course of actions that were chosen?

Save your soul and stop the hate....

Sean Delevan